Dominance And Submission
Part One
Sex comes down to one thing – dominance and submission… Most
people are probably not aware of this. First let me explain the way it is
supposed to work, but almost never does. What are you thinking about when you
have a mind-blowing orgasm? You are not thinking about anything are you? Of
course you are not… You are too busy EXPERIENCING to think or to analyze. The
French call the moment, “La petite mort”. That means “The little death”. The
idea is that you DIE TO SELF at that moment of orgasmic bliss. The Japanese Zen
practitioners would call this mental and spiritual state “Satori”. This is the
moment of death of ego. You die to SELF. You do not exist anymore. You become a
part of something much, much bigger than yourself and it completely devours
you. When two people “make love”, or when they “fuck one another senseless” in
the way nature intended, this is what happens to them. Both fuckers die to
self. In that moment they become so lost in the other person, they cease to
exist. Their lover completely and totally dominates them. But they do the same
thing to the other person. Both lovers are completely dominant. Both lovers are
completely submissive. In a perfect fairytale world this bliss lasts forever
and the lovers live happily ever after. That is how it is supposed to work, but
seldom does.
Ok… Since shit never works the way it is supposed to, what
do we do to make it through the lonely night? I will tell you what we do. We
try to fill the emptiness with relationships or sexual perversions that
simulate this nirvana of selfless bliss. In the more vanilla version of this,
you have a relationship where one person is the “alpha” and the other is the
“beta”. One is the master and one is the submissive. I am not talking about any
kind of sexual role-play right now. What I am saying it that one person
dominates the relationship and tends to call all the shots. More often than not
in today’s world, it is the woman who is the alpha. This is because most men
are fucking pussies these days. Why do you think FIFTY SHADES OF GREY was so
fucking popular with women? It is because we so seldom encounter a man who will
take charge and be the man. Now granted, in this novel/movie, the dominance and
submission is just a sexual metaphor for what many women (I may piss off the
feminists here), what MOST WOMEN want… a man who can take care of them. Yes, most
of us can take care of ourselves just fine thank you very much… And we can TAKE
CARE of our men. Now I am back to my point about dominance/submission. I am
completely dominant over you, but I am also completely submissive to you, and
vice versa. SIMBIOSIS mutherfuckers! In the Fifty Shades story, Christian Grey
is a wildly successful, filthy rich, super-intelligent businessman. Try to
imagine the story being popular with women if he was an unemployed redneck
living in a house trailer. Not so sexy a story is it? Are all women gold
digging whores? Well, I know a lot who are, but no… I think women just want
someone who can actually contribute more to a relationship than a piece of meat
between their legs. Guys, we can have pretty fucking awesome orgasms without
your help. I am the fucking BEST I have ever had… No one can touch me like I
can touch me, and my girlfriend comes in a close second. Women were not so hot
and bothered by the Christian Grey character ‘cause he was rich. We like him
because he was not a fucking spineless loser. He made something with his life.
He had dreams and ambitions beyond his first job at McDonalds. Queue up that
old song HOLDING OUT FOR A HERO…
Ok... So all the good men are gone yada yada yada. And all
the women are frigid, gold digging whores. Fuck the human race, right? So how does all
this have anything to do will all that twisted S&M shit that you horny
fuckers are waiting for me to start writing about? All that twisted stuff is
the way our deviant little minds try to cope with the stuff we really need but
know we probably never will get.
EVERYTHING comes down to sex. Thank you very much Dr. Freud…
I am only 18 and I figured that out all on my own without a degree in
psychology. There are a lot of ways in which people fetishize dominance and
submission. Fasten your seatbelts and put your trays in the full upright
position. We are preparing for takeoff…
Working as a phone sex girl, I have received a crash course
in human sexuality and all the perverseness that it entails. First let us
examine the dominant. Guys who want to dominate me come in all disturbing and
arousing flavors. Going back to the Fifty Shades of Grey, story, I am seeing
now that is really kind of vanilla. That is entry-level stuff. The guy gets off
on tying up the girl and spanking her. I find it hard to believe that a few
months ago I found that shocking. All that kind of dominance is, is merely
restraining a girl and mildly “punishing her” to make her more “obedient”. “Call
me SIR!” Call me “Master”. Ok… That is a kind of submission, but like I said,
it is pretty PG stuff compared to what some of you guys demand of me. I talk to
some guys who want me in pigtails and a plaid skirt. They want to be my
“daddy”. Daddy loves me very much. Daddy wants me to touch him like mommy
touches him… I am very, VERY young and innocent and I still don’t fully
understand why Daddy’s pee-pee gets so big when I touch it or why he makes all
those fun noises when I bounce up and down on it. I don’t know what all that
yucky looking white stuff is that shoots out after a while, but it is, like,
SUPER YUMMY, and it makes me feel so silly and submissive to Daddy’s wants,
needs and desires… I am not too smart. Daddy says that it is because he keeps
fucking me senseless… Every time he pulls down my sticky white cotton panties
and slides his huge throbbing manhood into my tight little cunny, I feel myself
becoming just a little bit more submissive to his will. He tells me what to
wear. He tells me what to think and he tells me what to be aroused by. I am
Daddy’s little girl and I live for daddy’s cock. This is al I am and all I ever
hope to be. Total submission! Like I said, Fifty Shades is pretty tame…
Fuck… I was going to write more in this entry, but now I
need to put fresh batteries in my vibrator and take care of myself…
TO BE CONTINUED…
