Dominance And Submission

Part One

Sex comes down to one thing – dominance and submission… Most people are probably not aware of this. First let me explain the way it is supposed to work, but almost never does. What are you thinking about when you have a mind-blowing orgasm? You are not thinking about anything are you? Of course you are not… You are too busy EXPERIENCING to think or to analyze. The French call the moment, “La petite mort”. That means “The little death”. The idea is that you DIE TO SELF at that moment of orgasmic bliss. The Japanese Zen practitioners would call this mental and spiritual state “Satori”. This is the moment of death of ego. You die to SELF. You do not exist anymore. You become a part of something much, much bigger than yourself and it completely devours you. When two people “make love”, or when they “fuck one another senseless” in the way nature intended, this is what happens to them. Both fuckers die to self. In that moment they become so lost in the other person, they cease to exist. Their lover completely and totally dominates them. But they do the same thing to the other person. Both lovers are completely dominant. Both lovers are completely submissive. In a perfect fairytale world this bliss lasts forever and the lovers live happily ever after. That is how it is supposed to work, but seldom does.

Ok… Since shit never works the way it is supposed to, what do we do to make it through the lonely night? I will tell you what we do. We try to fill the emptiness with relationships or sexual perversions that simulate this nirvana of selfless bliss. In the more vanilla version of this, you have a relationship where one person is the “alpha” and the other is the “beta”. One is the master and one is the submissive. I am not talking about any kind of sexual role-play right now. What I am saying it that one person dominates the relationship and tends to call all the shots. More often than not in today’s world, it is the woman who is the alpha. This is because most men are fucking pussies these days. Why do you think FIFTY SHADES OF GREY was so fucking popular with women? It is because we so seldom encounter a man who will take charge and be the man. Now granted, in this novel/movie, the dominance and submission is just a sexual metaphor for what many women (I may piss off the feminists here), what MOST WOMEN want… a man who can take care of them. Yes, most of us can take care of ourselves just fine thank you very much… And we can TAKE CARE of our men. Now I am back to my point about dominance/submission. I am completely dominant over you, but I am also completely submissive to you, and vice versa. SIMBIOSIS mutherfuckers! In the Fifty Shades story, Christian Grey is a wildly successful, filthy rich, super-intelligent businessman. Try to imagine the story being popular with women if he was an unemployed redneck living in a house trailer. Not so sexy a story is it? Are all women gold digging whores? Well, I know a lot who are, but no… I think women just want someone who can actually contribute more to a relationship than a piece of meat between their legs. Guys, we can have pretty fucking awesome orgasms without your help. I am the fucking BEST I have ever had… No one can touch me like I can touch me, and my girlfriend comes in a close second. Women were not so hot and bothered by the Christian Grey character ‘cause he was rich. We like him because he was not a fucking spineless loser. He made something with his life. He had dreams and ambitions beyond his first job at McDonalds. Queue up that old song HOLDING OUT FOR A HERO…

Ok... So all the good men are gone yada yada yada. And all the women are frigid, gold digging whores.  Fuck the human race, right? So how does all this have anything to do will all that twisted S&M shit that you horny fuckers are waiting for me to start writing about? All that twisted stuff is the way our deviant little minds try to cope with the stuff we really need but know we probably never will get.

EVERYTHING comes down to sex. Thank you very much Dr. Freud… I am only 18 and I figured that out all on my own without a degree in psychology. There are a lot of ways in which people fetishize dominance and submission. Fasten your seatbelts and put your trays in the full upright position. We are preparing for takeoff…

Working as a phone sex girl, I have received a crash course in human sexuality and all the perverseness that it entails. First let us examine the dominant. Guys who want to dominate me come in all disturbing and arousing flavors. Going back to the Fifty Shades of Grey, story, I am seeing now that is really kind of vanilla. That is entry-level stuff. The guy gets off on tying up the girl and spanking her. I find it hard to believe that a few months ago I found that shocking. All that kind of dominance is, is merely restraining a girl and mildly “punishing her” to make her more “obedient”. “Call me SIR!” Call me “Master”. Ok… That is a kind of submission, but like I said, it is pretty PG stuff compared to what some of you guys demand of me. I talk to some guys who want me in pigtails and a plaid skirt. They want to be my “daddy”. Daddy loves me very much. Daddy wants me to touch him like mommy touches him… I am very, VERY young and innocent and I still don’t fully understand why Daddy’s pee-pee gets so big when I touch it or why he makes all those fun noises when I bounce up and down on it. I don’t know what all that yucky looking white stuff is that shoots out after a while, but it is, like, SUPER YUMMY, and it makes me feel so silly and submissive to Daddy’s wants, needs and desires… I am not too smart. Daddy says that it is because he keeps fucking me senseless… Every time he pulls down my sticky white cotton panties and slides his huge throbbing manhood into my tight little cunny, I feel myself becoming just a little bit more submissive to his will. He tells me what to wear. He tells me what to think and he tells me what to be aroused by. I am Daddy’s little girl and I live for daddy’s cock. This is al I am and all I ever hope to be. Total submission! Like I said, Fifty Shades is pretty tame…

Fuck… I was going to write more in this entry, but now I need to put fresh batteries in my vibrator and take care of myself…

 

TO BE CONTINUED…