Dominance And Submission

Part One

Sex comes down to one thing – dominance and submission… Most people are probably not aware of this. First let me explain the way it is supposed to work, but almost never does. What are you thinking about when you have a mind-blowing orgasm? You are not thinking about anything are you? Of course you are not… You are too busy EXPERIENCING to think or to analyze. The French call the moment, “La petite mort”. That means “The little death”. The idea is that you DIE TO SELF at that moment of orgasmic bliss. The Japanese Zen practitioners would call this mental and spiritual state “Satori”. This is the moment of death of ego. You die to SELF. You do not exist anymore. You become a part of something much, much bigger than yourself and it completely devours you. When two people “make love”, or when they “fuck one another senseless” in the way nature intended, this is what happens to them. Both fuckers die to self. In that moment they become so lost in the other person, they cease to exist. Their lover completely and totally dominates them. But they do the same thing to the other person. Both lovers are completely dominant. Both lovers are completely submissive. In a perfect fairytale world this bliss lasts forever and the lovers live happily ever after. That is how it is supposed to work, but seldom does.

Ok… Since shit never works the way it is supposed to, what do we do to make it through the lonely night? I will tell you what we do. We try to fill the emptiness with relationships or sexual perversions that simulate this nirvana of selfless bliss. In the more vanilla version of this, you have a relationship where one person is the “alpha” and the other is the “beta”. One is the master and one is the submissive. I am not talking about any kind of sexual role-play right now. What I am saying it that one person dominates the relationship and tends to call all the shots. More often than not in today’s world, it is the woman who is the alpha. This is because most men are fucking pussies these days. Why do you think FIFTY SHADES OF GREY was so fucking popular with women? It is because we so seldom encounter a man who will take charge and be the man. Now granted, in this novel/movie, the dominance and submission is just a sexual metaphor for what many women (I may piss off the feminists here), what MOST WOMEN want… a man who can take care of them. Yes, most of us can take care of ourselves just fine thank you very much… And we can TAKE CARE of our men. Now I am back to my point about dominance/submission. I am completely dominant over you, but I am also completely submissive to you, and vice versa. SIMBIOSIS mutherfuckers! In the Fifty Shades story, Christian Grey is a wildly successful, filthy rich, super-intelligent businessman. Try to imagine the story being popular with women if he was an unemployed redneck living in a house trailer. Not so sexy a story is it? Are all women gold digging whores? Well, I know a lot who are, but no… I think women just want someone who can actually contribute more to a relationship than a piece of meat between their legs. Guys, we can have pretty fucking awesome orgasms without your help. I am the fucking BEST I have ever had… No one can touch me like I can touch me, and my girlfriend comes in a close second. Women were not so hot and bothered by the Christian Grey character ‘cause he was rich. We like him because he was not a fucking spineless loser. He made something with his life. He had dreams and ambitions beyond his first job at McDonalds. Queue up that old song HOLDING OUT FOR A HERO…

Ok... So all the good men are gone yada yada yada. And all the women are frigid, gold digging whores.  Fuck the human race, right? So how does all this have anything to do will all that twisted S&M shit that you horny fuckers are waiting for me to start writing about? All that twisted stuff is the way our deviant little minds try to cope with the stuff we really need but know we probably never will get.

EVERYTHING comes down to sex. Thank you very much Dr. Freud… I am only 18 and I figured that out all on my own without a degree in psychology. There are a lot of ways in which people fetishize dominance and submission. Fasten your seatbelts and put your trays in the full upright position. We are preparing for takeoff…

Working as a phone sex girl, I have received a crash course in human sexuality and all the perverseness that it entails. First let us examine the dominant. Guys who want to dominate me come in all disturbing and arousing flavors. Going back to the Fifty Shades of Grey, story, I am seeing now that is really kind of vanilla. That is entry-level stuff. The guy gets off on tying up the girl and spanking her. I find it hard to believe that a few months ago I found that shocking. All that kind of dominance is, is merely restraining a girl and mildly “punishing her” to make her more “obedient”. “Call me SIR!” Call me “Master”. Ok… That is a kind of submission, but like I said, it is pretty PG stuff compared to what some of you guys demand of me. I talk to some guys who want me in pigtails and a plaid skirt. They want to be my “daddy”. Daddy loves me very much. Daddy wants me to touch him like mommy touches him… I am very, VERY young and innocent and I still don’t fully understand why Daddy’s pee-pee gets so big when I touch it or why he makes all those fun noises when I bounce up and down on it. I don’t know what all that yucky looking white stuff is that shoots out after a while, but it is, like, SUPER YUMMY, and it makes me feel so silly and submissive to Daddy’s wants, needs and desires… I am not too smart. Daddy says that it is because he keeps fucking me senseless… Every time he pulls down my sticky white cotton panties and slides his huge throbbing manhood into my tight little cunny, I feel myself becoming just a little bit more submissive to his will. He tells me what to wear. He tells me what to think and he tells me what to be aroused by. I am Daddy’s little girl and I live for daddy’s cock. This is al I am and all I ever hope to be. Total submission! Like I said, Fifty Shades is pretty tame…

Fuck… I was going to write more in this entry, but now I need to put fresh batteries in my vibrator and take care of myself…

 

TO BE CONTINUED…

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I am still trying to get my head around all of this. I am thinking about studying psychology if I ever decide to go to college. I think you could spend a lifetime trying to understand how crazy we all are and what made us that way.  I do not think there is much hope of curing anyone though, so maybe I am better off just being a phone sex operator, making money off people’s insanity while contributing to my own permanent and irreversible brain damage from this twisted vocation.

 My observations thus far: Guys are EVIL… Really, really EVIL! No judgment here guys. I am pretty twisted myself for just 18 years of practice, but fuuuuuuuck! Some of the things I have heard guys say to me… Some of the fantasies they have shared. “E.V.I.L” … All capital letters, underscore, bold print, flashing red text, “EVIL!” This is what I am learning. All men are deeply, deeply sexually repressed. I do not think a single one of them actually gets what they need from their significant other.

 Guys seem to fall into two broad categories, dominant or submissive. There are many subcategories, but this seems to be the main thing. Some guys want to relinquish control. They want me to dominate them, control them or do really freaky shit to them. The other end of the spectrum is the guy who wants to completely control me. These guys want a slave, a sex object. They may want to rape me, brain wash me, or be my daddy, or all of the above and not necessarily in that order…

 That brings me to another kink. It seems that most men are pedophiles… I don’t mean in the sense that they actually like children, but most guys seem to like really young “breeding age” girls. I do not think a single one of them could keep it in their pants if a hot 18-year-old girl told them to stick it in her. I guess this is just hardwired biology. It is my understanding that for most of history, girls became viable candidates for mates as soon as they reached biological sexual maturity. They usually mated with much, MUCH older men who where sufficiently socially and economically secure to support a family. Before the advent of modern medicine there were very high infant mortality rates and deaths in childbirth. Younger women were more likely to survive and produce offspring. Thus millions of years of evolution has hardwired the male brain to sexually respond to plaid skirts, pigtails and knee socks.

 Most guys are attracted to “purity and innocence” even if their sole goal is to take that innocence and forever corrupt it. The two archetypes seem to be that of the vestal virgin and the objectified whore. In the first fantasy we have the teen-aged catholic schoolgirl with aforementioned pigtails, tartan skirt and knee socks. She is sweet, innocent, inexperienced and virginal. She is thin and natural looking. She usually does not look like she has had a boob job. If she HAS had a boob job, it looks very natural. This kind of waif is usually very naïve and pure, but easily talked into allowing herself to be gang-raped by black guys while her “daddy” watches while astride a pink unicorn. Yea… WTF? But I had a caller want to run that scenario, LOL. I guess he wants to be DEADPOOL.  Anyway… The pure little girl usually does not STAY THAT WAY long in the popular male imagination. They often wind up getting transformed into the second archetype, the objectified whore.

The objectified whore is referred to in the common parlance as “The Bimbo”. The bimbo has “Made by Mattel” as a tramp stamp on her ass. She is the living Barbie doll. The Bimbo has a serious image problem. She wants everything about herself to be surgically altered. She wants huge fake looking tits, big “cock-sucker lips”, and a big round, firm ass. This girl usually has an IQ that is smaller that her boob size.

 I think guys who are strongly attracted to this type of fantasy want a sex partner that they do not really have to acknowledge as a human being. This kind of girl has no thoughts or even personality of her own. She is just a collection of holes waiting to be filled. I suspect the guys that are into this have had numerous bad experiences with “real women” and just want a piece of meat to fuck. Deep meaningful conversation and profound spiritual connection not necessary, thank you very much.

 Again, these are just observations, no judgment here. Give me a call and I will be any and all of these fantasies for you. From the female perspective, at least from MY female perspective ( I do not presume to speak for all of my gender), I enjoy a good fantasy. I am kind of embarrassed by some of the stuff I DO enjoy.

 

Yes in the REAL world, there is nothing sexier that someone who honest-to-god loves you and thinks more about your needs that their own, but I hope your girlfriends never realize this. I would be out of a job! Keep the calls coming in guys. Until my dream lover comes riding into my life jacking off a pink unicorn, your conversations are keeping this little girl’s imagination flourishing and my tight little snatch soaking wet.

 Let your freak flags fly and run me up your flagpole. I will “shiver your timbers”! (LOL, watched the pirate show BLACK SAILS last night. I had to make a pirate reference!)

  

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